Then I lie to you, because I’m afraid of your judgment. When I am honest and I am what I am, you are already hurt, you are mad. If you have the expectation that I have to be a certain way, then I feel the obligation to be that way.The truth is I am bot what you want me to be. These rules affect the quality of the channels of communication between us, because when we are afraid, we lie. “In the track of fear we have so many conditions, expectations, and obligations that we create a lot of rules just to protect ourselves against emotional pain, when the truth is that there shouldn’t be any rules. If you don’t take it personally, it will be so easy for you to have a wonderful relationship with your partner” Your partner is dealing with her own garbage. “…Nothing that your partner does is personal. “the real mission you have in life is to make yourself happy, and in order to be happy, you have to look at what you believe, the way you judge yourself, the way you victimize yourself” ― Miguel Ruiz, The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship –Toltec Wisdom Book

“And what is the right woman, the right man? Someone who wants to go in the same direction as you do, someone who is compatible with your views and your values– emotionally, physically, economically, spiritually.”

― Miguel Ruiz, The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship “You don’t need to justify your love, you don’t need to explain your love, you just need to practice your love. –This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title. Sales of his Toltec Wisdom Series have soared to nearly 8 million copies in the United States alone, and have been translated into more than 38 languages worldwide. The teachings of don Miguel Ruiz are best known for transforming complex human issues into simple common sense - a talent that has earned him millions of fans, international acclaim, and a vote of approval from Oprah Winfrey. About the Authorĭon Miguel Ruiz is the international bestselling author of The Four Agreements (a New York Times bestseller for over seven years), The Mastery of Love, The Voice of Knowledge, Prayers, and The Fifth Agreement. When you are aware that no one else can make you happy, and that happiness is the result of your love, this becomes the greatest mastery of the Toltec: the Mastery of Love. Happiness can only come from inside of you and is the result of your love. The themes explored include the Toltec wisdom of the heart, the track of love, and the war of control. In the tradition of Carlos Castaneda, he uses inspirational stories to impart the wisdom of three fundamental Toltec masteries (Awareness, Transformation, and Love).

In a refreshingly honest investigation of the true nature of love, don Miguel Ruiz brings to light the commonly held fallacies and misplaced expectations about love that permeate most relationships.

Wisdom from the mastery of love